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The Tao of Seneca: Practical Letters from a Stoic Master, Volume 1, book review





ASIN: B01AIXJ0U

How strongly I recommend it: 10/10

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About the book
The Tao of Seneca (volumes 1-3) is a collection of letters written through the words of Seneca to his friend Lucillius.  All three volumes are introductory books to Stoic philosophy. The book contains numerous advice that can be applied to your life. In addition to this, the book is written in eloquent language that makes it a pleasant read. Many people in the past and at present read Seneca’s letters, among them Thomas Jefferson, NFL coaches, Silicon Valley entrepreneurs and many others. Stoicism is practical operating system for thriving in high-stress environments, says Tim Ferriss. Actually, I learned about the book from his blog, where Tim included all three volumes into his book club section. Having read the 1st volume, I can say that it makes you to reconsider your thinking process and values, change your attitude to life. The book contains numerous amount of ideas, for this reason I am sharing only those ideas that resonated with me in a form of bullet points. By this way it will be very practical for any person who wants to learn these ideas and review them from time to time. By the way, you can download all three volumes for free in Tim’s blog where he shared them. Thank you Mr. Tim Ferriss for sharing these amazing books with the world!

Here is a sample letter from the book read by Tim Ferriss in his podcast, listen to it and feel the taste of the book.


Book notes and key lessons I have learned
Wisdom
  • No one is able to borrow or buy a sound mind.
  • Submit yourself to reason, if reason will be your ruler, you will become ruler of many.
  • Instead of reading many books, read, reread and digest few master thinkers’ books.
  • Serving to philosophy (thinking) is freedom, serving to desires and emotions is a slavery.
  • Wisdom is always desiring the same things and always refusing the same things.
  • The best ideas a property of all people.

Thinking
  • We suffer more in our imagination than in reality.
  • We have a habit of imagining, exaggerating and anticipating suffering and pain.
  • Believe in what you prefer to believe, and do not harass your soul.
  • We agree too quickly with other’s opinions but do not test ideas that cause our fears.


Self-improvement
  • Strive and be persistent at improving yourself everyday by studying, training and changing yourself.
  • Inwardly strive to excellence and self-improvement, on your exterior conform to society.
  • Find mentors according to whom you can improve yourself, you cannot fix crooked without a ruler.
  • Your greatest obstacle and trouble is you, where ever you go, you take this burden with yourself. Thus improve yourself instead of trying to escaping from yourself.
  • Men complain about their hardships but not about their laziness and foolishness.


Gratitude 
  • Every day wake up with joy and gladness, because you are alive.
  • He who accepts voluntary poverty (minimalist and voluntary content life) is rich.
  • Be grateful to be rich, otherwise you will be poor even if all the wealth of the world belongs to you.
  • Your wealth does not matter if it is bad in your own eyes.


Wealth
  • No man is born rich, as nature gives to newborn only milk and rags.
  • To be rich, have what is necessary and then have what is enough.
  • It is not the man who has little, but the man who craves more that is poor. Be content and you will be rich.
  • Live according to nature and you will be rich. Live according to opinion and you will be poor.
  • He who needs riches least enjoys it most.
  • Hunger costs a little, greed costs a lot.


Friends
  • Judge a person before making him your friend, only after that trust him. Many people do the opposite.
  • To make a friend loyal, regard him as loyal, and he will become loyal friend to you.
  • Evaluating a person by clothes or riches is like evaluating a horse by its saddle, look at person’s soul and character instead of his possessions.
  • Be friends with poverty so fortune cannot catch you off guard.
  • Wise man is self-sufficient, though he wants to have friends.


Social status
  • Every king descends from a race of slaves, and every slave has had kings among his ancestors.


Fear and hardships
  • Practice fear setting on regular basis.
  • Repeatedly practice voluntary poverty and the worst case scenarios and ask yourself: “Is this what I am afraid of?”
  • While fortune is kind, fortify yourself against her violence by facing your fears.
  • Regular experience of fear will make tough decisions easier, whether it is quitting job, starting business, changing career or anything else.


Time and life
  • Nothing is ours except time.
  • Largest portion of our life passes while we are doing ill, a goodly share while we are doing nothing, and the whole while we are doing that which is not to the purpose.
  • Certain moments are torn from us, some are gently removed, and others glide beyond our reach.
  • The most disgraceful loss of time is due to carelessness.
  • You cannot lengthen your life, but you always can live noble and content life, no matter how long you will live.
  • Live everyday as a separate whole life, so you will live numerous lives, not one life.
  • Keep resolutions you have made instead of coming up with new ones
  • The only chain that is binding us to life is the love of life.
  • While we are postponing, life speeds by.


Death
  • Young and old should look directly in the face of death; there is no rule by which death takes people’s lives.
  • Death does not come suddenly, you die every day. Every day that has passed is in death’s hand.
  • You do not know where death is awaiting you, so be ready for it everywhere.


Ideas on how to read the book
This book is so dense with ideas that it needs to be consumed by small bites. Instead of swallowing it, read or listen to one or two letters per day, this is the advice of Tim Ferriss. Pause in places where you need to think through ideas. Reflect on where you can apply ideas in your life. Review key ideas on regular basis so you can instill them into your life.

"If" poem by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you   
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,   
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
    But make allowance for their doubting too;   
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;   
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;   
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;   
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,   
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,   
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,   
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!



Source: A Choice of Kipling's Verse (1943)